THE JOURNEY... Sequel
Her mother
was bewildered and kept mute but kept on praying. Dj called and text-ed her but
she wouldn’t respond. Two days later Mr Briggs’ (Dj’ father) and Dj’ friend
called her and talked with her. Later she called Dj and talked to him and she
decided to go ahead with the wedding… Alas her big day was here with guests
gaily dressed and seated in the church the groom arrived looking dapper in his
navy blue tux with his groom’s men. Then the congregation was upstanding for
the entry of the sweet looking bride, in time the church proceedings were done
and they were pronounced man and wife.
Excited, Adediji,
planted a soft kiss on her lip as they left for a surprise honeymoon
destination. A week later they returned home to thank family and friends for
their support. Hannatu picked her suit cases from home to start her new life as
Mrs Hannatu Briggs. The goodbye was emotional she said, “I saw daddy with
glassy eyes, that’s when it hit me, I was leaving behind the place I have known
as home for 28 years.”
In Port
Harcourt, it was a bitter-sweet period of adjustment for both of them and Dj
withdrew into his shell, his silence was getting the better part of her, she
voiced it out to him because she was new in town and feeling lonely and his
silence was not helping her. He, on the other hand, felt she was nagging. The
more she tried to converse him up when he returned home from work the more
frustrated she became and then tension started building between them. One night
while they were having one of their discussions where Hannatu was sharing her
idea, Dj’s silent frustration showed up when he slapped her and said, “You talk
too much.” Startled she looked at him and kept quiet and the silence remained
for 2 days till she moved for peace.
They
continued adjusting to each other and she decided to get a job, being new to
the town she had to make several phone calls and she got a private firm to
start with. She was getting tired of picking after Dj and when she tried to
tell him about it, he snapped. She was confused at this change and didn’t even
know whom to tell, eventually she summoned up courage and called her mom, her
mom was so concerned she prayed with her and encouraged her, her mom couldn’t
tell her dad cause she feared he might not take it lightly since Hannatu was
the only daughter and very close to her father. Her mum hoped to visit them as
soon as she could get her leave in the office. But before she could secure her
leave her daughter called to say everything is going well, as Dj has adjusted
and she told mum it was just initial adjustment.
Thirteen months
later she fell ill and he took her to the hospital on their way home she was
asking him if he would help her do some chores at home and he hit her again and
asked her to keep quiet, Hannatu had had enough and she returned him the
gesture and he asked her out of his car, she came down got a taxi and went
home. He came and met her at home and started arguing with her. This easily
degenerated into a fight and he was surprised she was fighting back. She went
into d room and started packing her things into her suitcases, from behind he
kicked her, the pain ran through her spine up to her brain, she turned and
fiercely charged at him and pushed him out of the room and shut the door, she
finished packing and came out of the room and left the house, only to look back
and see him behind her angrily. She picked a big stone and was about to
throw it at him when she heard a voice say, “Do you want to kill him?”.... To be Continued
The need for tolerance which should have been developed through sincere courtship is what is lacking here..the require mutual understanding that have to bring forth tolerance.
ReplyDeleteI believe very passionately they both lack tolerance..one begin to wonder why many of our so called modern christain marriges is suffering from foundational sincere courtship where one would have been aware of one partner behaviour and decides to accommodate it..that for me should be the basic need for courtshp ..4rm dave
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